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Even in Haiti, we could see a lively sense of humor hidden underneath the layers of distrust and fear. One of the first experiences where it began to work its way to the surface was after the first time Lucas attended a birthday party. My husband had taken the kids to a cousin’s birthday party while I stayed home. As soon as Lucas came through the door, he sought me out. “Mama! Mama! Listen to me!”, he said then sang the first line of the Happy Birthday song a few times before blowing out imaginary candles and laughing a fully belly laugh. Lucas thought it absolutely hilarious that we Americans light our cakes on fire!

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Posted in Culture, Older Child on September 17th, 2007

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